The Silent Supper is traditionally held during Samhain. This time is believed to be when the veil between the physical world and the spirit world is at its thinnest.
Historical Background
Believed to have originated in the British Isles, the Silent Supper involves setting a place at the table for spirits and serving them food and drink as if they were present. This sacred meal is conducted in silence, allowing everyone taking part to reflect and connect with their ancestors.
Earlier forms of the Silent Supper, once known as the Dumb Supper, were practised in parts of Britain and Ireland. In some regions, the meal was linked with divination, particularly among young women who would perform the supper in silence to invite visions or messages from the otherworld. Over time, it changed to a quiet act of remembrance and communion with the deceased.
During Samhain, it was common to leave offerings of food and drink for wandering souls and to light candles to guide them home. The Silent Supper echoes these older customs, transforming them more intimate experience.
Holding your own Silent Supper.
You do not need to hold your Silent Supper on Samhain itself; do it at a time that suits you. You need to feel relaxed and not rushed.
Who are the ancestors?
Your ancestors can include:
Family, if that feels right for you. You don’t have to welcome anyone who was harmful.
Those who lived in the area where you are now living, or perhaps they are connected to areas that mean something to you.
The witches, healers, and seekers who walked a similar path to you.
Anyone who shaped you, whether by blood or by influence.
Creating the Atmosphere
To enhance the spiritual ambience, consider holding your supper by candlelight. I tend to do this; I find it makes it more of an experience to eat in semi-darkness. You do not need to hold your Silent supper exactly on Samhain
Samhan Foods.
When planning your silent supper, consider incorporating seasonal foods that resonate with autumn themes. Such as:
Seasonal Vegetables
Potatoes, Especially Jacket potatoes
Sausages
Pumpkin soup.
The Silent supper
How you choose to start your silent supper is up to you. You may wish to give a reading, inviting your chosen ancestors to join. You may want to ring a bell or something to signal the start of your meal and later the end.
During the Meal
Maintain silence throughout the meal, allowing everyone attending to reflect and commune with their ancestors. When everyone is finished eating, signal the end of the supper.
After the Meal
You may wish to reflect on your experiences. If you have done this with guests, you may want to invite them to share their experiences. Another thing you could do is to write messages to loved ones, which could be burned in a fire ritual.
After everything is done and you are ready to conclude your evening, spend time giving thanks to your ancestors for coming, and then conclude your supper. Make sure any food that has been left over or left as an offering is disposed of respectfully.
I highly recommend the following books for recipe ideas.
The Witch’s Feast: A Kitchen Grimoire by Melissa Madara
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